3 months old

Ahh! She’s three months old.  I can’t believe.  Time flies when you have a baby, but a SECOND baby?!  Time goes even faster (you must fall into a black hole after the birth of a third or fourth!).

 

As Claire turns three months, we mark the end of the so-called “Fourth Trimester.” And she’s hitting so many milestones that indicate to me she’s no longer a newborn – she’s laughing (it’s this funny coughing noise with lots of big smiles), sleeping in her own room, trying so hard to sit up, eating her hand like it’s her last meal, and tracking people with her eyes.  Guess who is her favorite person?  Yup.  Big Brother Henry.

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Progress Report – look at how she’s grown!

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And, just to compare, let’s check out Henry’s 3 month photo and Claire’s…

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You can definitely tell they are related, huh? As someone who doesn’t have a sibling, I especially love that my kiddos look alike.  It’s so cute.  They have the same blue eyes and the same cheeks.  The biggest difference is their face shape – Henry was long and lean, even as a baby, and Claire’s is this perfect little circle. 

 

Mind After Baby

 

Truthfully, I get super stressed out with trying to juggle it all. I think that’s probably natural.  On really busy days, I feel like I’m just FLYING from one task to the next and barely have time to breathe.  I get this heavy feeling in my chest – it feels like I will never get everything done and keep everyone happy.  The bottom line is that, no matter whether you work or stay at home or do a combination, raising children in a lot of hard work.  There are lunches to pack, bottoms to wipe, mouths to feed, tantrums to be soothed… Over and over and over again.  And then there’s work, taking care of the house, being a wife and friend, and taking time for myself.

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But parenting is so fun and lovely.  You know that book I read – All Fun and No Joy? I think about the chapters on the joyful aspect of parenting so much.  The dance parties in the living room at 7 PM, the wonder when Henry makes a joke (an actual  joke!) or Claire cracks a grin, the adventures building snowman, the sound of a baby cooing from a crib… So much joy.  My heart sings when I look at my kids.  It’s so worth it.  It’s SO much work, but I can’t imagine my life without these children.  

 

So it’s great, but it’s challenging, and I guess that’s what life is all about, huh?  I’ve been de-stressing with lots of this:

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And this:

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I’m also getting better at delegating tasks.  I think this is going to be huge for me.  There are tasks I can’t delegate and ones that I can – why not delegate what I can?  I hired a cleaning service to come once a month (HUGE!) and I have decided to pay someone to complete a big blog task that’s been on my To Do List for months and months (okay – years), which is to organize all my recipes into one easy-to-search widget. 

 

Body After Baby

 

I have a post sitting in my Drafts folder about loving my post-partum body, and I really need to finish it and share my thoughts.  I love my body.  It’s the only one I will ever have! 

 

I’ve been thinking a lot about how so many of us end up unhappy with our bodies simply because they change.  We get pregnant, we gain weight, our breasts sag, we age, we get wrinkles, etc.  Our society wants us to stay the same forever and ever.  Even when I get back to my pre-pregnancy weight, shit is going to look different (and function differently) – know what I mean?  Hah.  I’ve realized that it’s not realistic to fight the changes – I think I’d just end up unhappy.  Hi, I’m not 22 anymore.

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I’m embracing where I am at, and looking forward to where I am going, no matter what that looks like.  I’m trying to get stronger and lose the baby weight – I only have ten pounds to go! – because I would sure love to be able to wear my closet full of clothes and kick ass during my summer triathlons.  But on a day-to-day basis, I work out because it makes me feel SO MUCH BETTER when I am stressed or sleep deprived.  I try to focus on that, and it really motivates me to get to the gym.

 

So that’s where I’m at.  It’s a good place to be, mentally and physically.  <3 <3

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Yay!  So excited to pass this deal along… I have a great TOTALLY FREE offer for readers looking to jumpstart their spring cleaning!

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Although I can’t tell by the snow outside my window, spring is right around the corner.  And that means it’s nearly spring cleaning time.  I didn’t realize before becoming a homeowner how many tasks there are to do to keep a home ‘healthy’ – cleaning the gutters, washing the windows, emptying the dryer vents, and switching out the air filters.  There’s a lot to do, and it’s honestly hard to keep track of everything (and find time for it all).

 

I have a thing for subscription services because they really do seem to make life a little easier.  I get razors delivered, clothes delivered, snacks delivered, crafts delivered – it eliminates a trip to the store and makes going to the mailbox a lot more fun.  That’s why I am pumped to share the news about FilterEasy – it’s a subscription air filter service that mails new air filters directly to your house.

 

Perhaps air filters aren’t the most thrilling delivery, but I’m willing to bet you’re a lot like me when it comes to air filters.  I go eons where I forget to change the filters, and then I finally open the vent and the old filter is DISGUSTING.  Then I go to our stash in the garage and… I’m out of filters.  Whomp whomp.

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So I like the idea behind FilterEasy because not only does it eliminate a trip to the store, but it also reminds you to actually change the filters.

 

The other cool thing about FilterEasy is that you only have to do the ordering process once.  So you always get the right size.  How many times have I called my husband from Home Depot and asked, “Is the tiny vent in our room 14 X 14 inches or 12 X 12 inches?!”

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AND the filters are priced well, too – the same or less than your local hardware, including the free shipping.

 

With three pets and a lot of carpet, I know I should change my filter more regularly – a good air filter removes allergens, pet dander, dust, and bacteria, which I have no doubt is important for Henry and Claire’s (and our) lungs. 

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Okay – here’s the awesome freebie.

 

Every reader who CLICKS THIS LINK will get an ENTIRE MONTH’S worth of FREE air filters from FilterEasy.  The offer is for the first month’s order to be completely free, so that you can replace all the filters in your home.  Some important notes: you have to enter your email to get the discount applied to your cart, and you sign up for the subscription with your credit card, but the first month is free and there’s no obligation to continue using the service after the first free month.  However, I think you’ll find it’s a super convenient way to keep the air quality of your home healthy.

 

This post is sponsored by FilterEasy.  Thanks, as always, for supporting my blog.

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SnoMG!

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We got hit with a few inches of snow on Monday night!  It was the good kind, too – no freezing rain to make the roads miserable and close down the entire city.  Just big, fluffy flakes that were perfect for making a little snowman.

 

I was extra pumped because the snow delayed my mom’s departure!  Wahoo.  We really like it when she comes to stay with us, and any reason to extend the trip is fine by me.

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Because someone always asks –> Claire’s fleece booties.  They are Henry’s hand-me-downs and we love them so much we bought a second pair.  Worth every penny.

 

Mom chatted with me while I rode my trainer – yay for conversation!  Normally, I read a book or look out the window at our street.  This was a nice change of pace.

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I did 30 minutes and then I called it quits… I have trouble getting over the 30 minute hump mentally.  Anyone else?   I can’t believe that I’ve done 2 hour stretches – that sounds soooo painful right now.

 

The night before, I did an Operation Beautiful event at nearby Wingate University. It’s National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, and I usually travel non-stop this week for speaking events, but with Claire being so young, I decided to mostly sit this round out. It was fun to talk to a school so close – it was only a 45 minute drive.

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I did not present to an empty room, hah.

 

And here are some awesome eats from yesterday and today!

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Have you tried the Caramel Almond and Sea Salt KIND bar?  OMG. Seriously – OMG.  It’s so good. I randomly grabbed it off the grocery store shelf and ate it standing it line… I ended up going back to the shelf and throwing twelve bars in my cart.  It’s really tasty with some Earl Grey tea.

 

Quinoa, beans, roasted carrots, steamed kale and Tahini Sauce. 

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And hardboiled eggs are making a comeback in my life.

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Have an awesome Wednesday!

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I feel the need… the need for speed.  In everything I do lately, but especially in my workouts!

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With two small kiddos, it is SO not easy to get to the gym.  Or out the door for a run.  But it’s really important to me, so I try to find the time to exercise.  Unfortunately, more often than not, the available window is pretty small right now – I’ve got half an hour to get in and out.  That’s why I’m really loving intensity intervals right now and have been trying to incorporate more of that into all my workouts.

 

Here’s a fun 20 minute stairmaster workout that I did last week – it includes big bursts of speed that left me breathless and sweaty!

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The levels may vary from machine to machine, but for me, Level 5 is a “I can have a conversation with you” effort, Level 7 is getting pretty challenging, and Level 9 is “OMG this is the longest minute EVER!”

 

And now – a fun giveaway for you.  If you’ve been training hard, I think you’ll love this!  I’m giving away two pairs of CSX compression socks. I really liked these socks – they seem more “breathable” than my other compression socks yet just as, well, compressing.  You can also feel how they fit differently on different parts of your leg and foot – it’s not just one tight tube compressing your entire foot.

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I was super pumped to review these socks because I *believe* in the power of compression socks.  After my Half Ironman, I wore a pair in the car for the long (LONG) drive home and really think it helped speed along my recovery.  But compression socks can be used in so many other ways (during workouts, on long airplane flights, to help reduce shin splints, etc). I interviewed a member of the CSX team to learn more.

 

Caitlin: Why wear compression socks? What’s the reasoning behind compression?

 

CSX: Compression socks are typically well known in medical markets for those suffering with specific medical conditions such as varicose veins, swelling due to poor circulation, etc. However, many are now discovering the benefits of wearing compression socks daily to promote general leg health. Those that are standing on their feet all day, sitting for extended periods or especially exercising will notice a difference in how their legs feel when wearing graduated compression socks.

 

Many professional athletes have discovered that wearing compression socks can have an extremely positive affect on their athletic performance and in post-activity recovery. Here’s how the CSX compression socks work:

 

TRUE Graduated Compression (15-20 mmHg or 20- 30 mmHg): 15-20mmHg is suited for most users, however for those serious athletes that want a higher degree of compression, 20-30mmHg is available.

Extra Wide Self-Adjusting Top Band: This design element keeps the compression intervals in the ideal place, comfortably, to maximize the efficiently of the sock as it increases leg circulation.

V-Guard Shin Protection: Special weaving done to the front of the sock help reduce vibration which can cause shin splints. Ideal for those that suffer with shin splints or as a preventative measure.

Calf Cradle: Helps prevent calf muscle oscillation, reducing strain and decreasing recovery time.

Seamless (hand-linked), Extra Wide Toe Box: Allows for a supreme fit and does not restrain toes from fanning out naturally. No seam virtually eliminates the chance of blisters forming.

Achilles Tendon Protection: Especially Ideal when using new footwear.

Arch Support Band: Supports arches and also increases air flow around bottom of foot.

Built-in Ankle Support: Provides an extra layer of ankle compression adding extra stability and confidence during exercise. Ideal for those exercising on instable terrain or snow and ice where ankle injuries are more likely to occur.

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Caitlin: Should you wear compression socks WHILE exercising or just AFTER? Why?

 

CSX: It will vary from person to person, but compression socks are great for wearing during exercise – to encourage better circulation and minimize leg fatigue – as well as for recovery purposes.

 

Caitlin: What makes CSX different than other compression socks?

 

CSX: When we were developing these socks we really wanted to offer more than just basic compression. In the end we were able to design an athletic sock that’s rather unique; compression encourages increased blood flow/circulation and reduces leg fatigue, and built-in supports offer unparalleled ankle, arch and tendon protection. A major distinction is our years of experience developing TRUE medical grade compression products under our sister brand, Truform Leg Health. That’s what gives us a real edge over other compression sock styles.

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Caitlin: How should you wash and care for your compression socks?

 

CSX: To obtain months of comfortable wear, wash gently in lukewarm or cold water (never hot) with mild soap or detergent.  Rinse until the water is clear.  Do not wring out or twist.  Roll in a soft, absorbent towel to remove excess water, then air-dry flat.  Keep socks out of contact with oils, petroleum-based ointments and direct sunlight.

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It’s giveaway time!  Enter to win a pair of CSX socks using the widget below. As usual, I’m closing comments on this post so there’s no confusion on how to enter.

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If you’d like to purchase a pair of CSX compression socks, head over to their website and use the coupon code tippingpoint for 10% off your purchase.

 

This post is sponsored by CSX.  Thanks for reading sponsored content and for supporting my blog!

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Whoa, Baby!

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Did you have a nice weekend? We did!  MomHTP came to visit because the Husband went out of town – together with his sister, Kristien took my mother-in-law on a CRUISE for her 60th birthday!  I hope my kids take me on a cruise for my 60th!  Hah.  I would’ve tagged alone, but it was really a momma-kiddo trip (and Claire is too young to cruise, anyway).  He’s coming back tonight but was gone a total of 5 days – the longest we’ve been separated in about 12 years.  It was weird (especially because we couldn’t chat on the phone), and I really missed him. 

 

So I enlisted MomHTP’s help this weekend, and we enjoyed a wintery Charlotte version of fun instead.

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Henry had a “Parents Night Out” party to attend at school on Saturday, so mom and I took Claire out to eat.  I didn’t plan things too well – I haven’t been out on a Saturday night in a while and forgot how busy the restaurants get! – so we ended up sitting at the bar with Claire.  Baby in a bar!  She was a hit with the waitresses and actually seemed to enjoy the experience.  Oh, Claire…

 

I managed to squeeze in an outdoor run on Sunday morning.  I’ve created this awesome pop-rock station on Pandora that’s filled with tons of antsy hits – it’s so fun to run to.

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Look!  I’m wearing a tank top and there’s no snow on the grass.  Wahoo for warmer temps <— hope that creeps up North soon!

 

A Few of My Favorite Things…

 

We made these cookies last night. OMG.  RUN RUN RUN to the store and purchase this.  The cookies were so chewy and chocolately.  The first ingredient is sugar, which is obviously why they rock.

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I had to freeze the leftovers or else Mom and I would’ve consumed the entire box in a sitting.  While taking this photo, I discovered that the frozen cookies taste pretty damn good, too.  Crap!

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Speaking of chocolate (and sugar)…

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The Husband picked up this jar of Justin’s Chocolate Hazelnut Butter, which is basically a slightly healthier version of Nutella.  It actually has 1/2 the sugar, I think.   However, it’s more cakey than creamy (not necessary a bad thing, the texture just isn’t the same as Nutella).  It’s so delicious.  The Hus is going to strangle us when he comes home and realizes Henry and I ate the whole thing (although I think it’s a fair trade since we couldn’t be in the Caribbean, too!).

 

On an actually healthier note…

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This Tahini Sauce from Trader Joe’s (in the same section as hummus) is a new favorite in our house.  I’ve been making cast iron tofu with brown rice and steamed kale with a huge glob of this Tahini Sauce on top… it’s perfect.

 

Our tea cabinet is looking a little bare (this is “bare” for us – we like options).

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One of my current favorites is Twinings Earl Grey Tea with some creamer and a few drops of Stevia.  I have it every afternoon – it’s the perfect pick-me-up.

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<3 <3 <3 Have an awesome week!

 

This week is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week.  Over on Operation Beautiful, I’ve posted a round-up of NEDA’s activities for the week, if you’d like to get involved.

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